why the title is like that??? oooo... it is becoz pasal citer smalam...

i dunno what title shud i put on, so i leave it empty for the time being la...

the week started so slow... time flies so lambat which i cannot bear to stay at the ofis... mata dah zzZZzz... mood pun tak de, dunno why....

monday nite, we got dinner invitation in Ami's hse at Desa Pinggiran Putra, quite near with Alamanda. ekceli, thi DPP is Bangi's area but it is ekceli beside Putrajaya...so, we all went there, Ami cooked yummy gulai lemak ayam, complete with ulam2 and sambal belacan with ikan kering... it was so nice but i had pre-diner kat MIL's hse so tak mkn byk pun... darl apparently mkn sket sbb he thot nasi dah abis... sian die....hehhehe... we went back at 10pm. Ami and lan tumpang our car back to Puchong to pick up their motobike. so, we reached home at 11pm.... mata pun dah layu, so rite after semayang and zikir terus ZZZzzzZZZ. same goes to darl.

darl got minor cough... baru nak start, and he olredi stated mkn fishmen frens. nak bawa gi klinik, tak nak plak... tah ape2 le die tuh.... no fee required pun tak nak pegi gak....

yesterday, i didnt cook 4 dinner. balik umah je terus settlekan laundri. 2 load ok.. since darl was not so well, so i did all alone. from washing machine to sidai to angkat previous baju... tak lipat je lagi... we went our for diner at 9++pm... mkn tomyam, telo dada and paprik... went back at 10, layan urut darl kejap... he olreai feel like to demam so, better take precaution measured....

today, our depart got lunch at TGI Friday at Life Center. it's a yearly event where we have allocation for each employee. last year we went to KL Tower cos it seems that we had extra money last year. ekceli each employee only got rm30 each and with that amount of money, we managed to get lunch at TGI only. i think it's ok and elaine did a very good job of choosing the place and hopefully we all have fun.

gud morning monday....
gud news first... ADZ dah selamat being a mom last friday evening at 3.15pm... got a baby boy names Adam Haziq.. went to visit her at DEMC. she was fine and looks ok.... cuma realized that her face expand quite a lot... nampak leba semacam je. anyway, happy that dah selamat.
b4 go to DEMC, went to revlon sale at glenamrie, sempat samba compact powder and liptik... okla, for the time being stok.. my lipstik memang dah ngam2 abih.....
supposed to have open hse at En. Bak's hse but apparently darl got work to do. so, came back nearly at 1pm, relax2 kejap, darl went back to sg merab.... BIL#1 got car to do and need darl's expertise..
late evening, darl called and said that didip (read: darl's fren) is coming that nite... so, terus rendam meehun, was thinking to do mihun singapore. lagipun, mihun je yg ada kat umah but still kena gi kedai gak sbb all the bahan2 tak de..... darl came at nearly 6pm, sian die lapa... so, cooked maggi for him since i didnt cook anything sbb nothing kat dlm fridge.. lagipun, after visited ADZ, we went to kedai mamak and had roti canai....
told darl that we need to go to kedai kejap, and he said kena gi to Din's (read: jiran sbelah) hse sbb die ajak raya.. so, siap2 terus gi umah din dulu.. ate nasi lemak.. it was quite nice but the sambal was little but masin.... after that terus gi kedai, bought sawi, daging and fishball for mihun rencah...

today's lunch was not good experience at all.. we went to secret recipi to taste supposed to be yummylicious fud... not just that we waited for 1 hr to get our fud, but i got my fish and chip w/out chips.... they were dare to say that they are out of chips stock.. hell ya... who cares u don have the stock, all i want to know is my fish shud come with chips... that was 1 story, another one was, when they gave me the fish w/out chip, that outlet mgr said that they will replace other time when i come... hell ya again.. as though i want to come again.. .. no way, this will be my first and last time visit to SC... at last i got slice of choc banana on the hse... nasib baik, kalau tak sure dah mengamuk.. and at the end, we got 3 brownies for free as well, courtesy of all the hungry lawyers who stand for our rights....

that was the story on our lunch today... dah kenyang mkn fish and banana choc, mata pun dah separa tetutup....eehhhe.. now am munching the fruits lak...

yesterday, as usual went to MIL's hse for the zikir day..... gave the money to SIL#1... MIL was not quite satisfy with SIL#1 coz, she was thinking with the duit hantaran, it shud be enough to cover the whole kenduri... what can i say?? MIL said,  SIL#1 didnt even give her money for that kenduri, and SIL#1 spend almost rm5k for the kenduri and she didnt know what SIL#1 spend to... i have nothing to comment...

how do i feel today??? i am ok currently.. tadi got 3G working group mtg, apparently i was been designated to be rep from regulatory dept... cool heh??... not at all... ye la, all those other reps are from big guns, and me..... just the normal kucin kurap from this dept... i was quite sleepy in the mtg, dunno why but my eyes were close to shut it down..heheh.. but somehow i managed to go thru until all the milestones part.. went off after that...

went to RHB again (read: yesterday day pegi to withdraw ASB)... again to withdraw ASB... SIL#1 called me, with her quite sedih voice wanted to borrow rm400 to pay the curtain for her wedding ari tu... sian je dengar, so i said i will give her this evening... have gone thru that and i think i do understand her situation... at my time, i was quite blessed coz at that time, i just joint this new whole company with more than 30% increase in my salary which i think helps me alot... i mean really a lot... with that, i managed to actually bought all (at least) most of the barang hantaran (read: for myself and darl as well)... ye la, but i save alot on wedding pakej, read: i tak rent the whole pelamin, just baju songket.. but of cos i cannot compare myself with SIL#1, cos she is just a clerk... anyway, as i said, i have gone thru the pain, so i couldnt i help her... lagipun i think most of the kenduri's cost are been paid by her hantaran instead of BIL#2 helps to pay... gosh u BIL#2..!!!!

anyway, back to me... how do i feel today? again,  the same question... i was quite xcited for my next chckup next 2 wks... tak saba nak tgk this baby moving, to feels the summersoult, which i havent feel anything yet..hehheh... tak saba nak tunggu die siku2kan mama die nih.... and of coz the last one, the delivery pain.. masyaallah.. hopefully everything will go smooth.. aminnnnnnnnn.......
for the time being, bear with it la... i'm now in 2nd trimester... in 20wks already.. how time flies so fast... i have another 4 mths to go....i have gone thru the dizzi, nozziness, vomitting part... now it is the fud feeding part..hhehhe... but,  to this extend, i havent have the munching session yet.. dunno why, but after having 3 ordinary meals (read: brekfes, lunch and dinner), i will stop craving... sometimes je if i didnt take any heavybrekfes (read: only bread) then i do take biscuits in between. other than that, i am fine... fruits of coz la.. i do take fruits after lunch... haaa.....  this remind me that we have grapes in the fridge...!!! forgot to eat la...:p
and the other thing is, my stomach is not really blotted, but of coz my usual suit is baju kurung... nak pakai pregnency suit cam klako la plak... huduhnye i think...hehhe.. so, there is goes, baju kurung for everyday.... sampaikan, baju yg sama tepaksa diulang2 sampai further notice...hhehe... i was thinking to but miki mom pants in isetan, but i guess i will wait till dec's salary.... can pinjam azura's isetan card so that i can get extra 10% discount... pants is quite important, nanti bole le pakai gi ofis... boring gak asyek pakai baju kurung je....

okla, i think i need to go for pee and cut my fruit.....

first of all, alhamdulillah the kenduri went good, ramai org dtg, tak hujan and SIL selamat dinikahkan.... everything went ok...
now, comes the penat thing... masyaallah penatnye sampai skarang still terasa... darl and me were there since friday....

i started my friday with trip to KL, amik baju mak kat medan mara, bought baju melayu abah, went to mydin to buy few staffs, then go and take fruit cake kat RHB and end up kat k4 sri petaling to buy some gula2 and coklat for extra 100 packs. tu pun tak sempat nak balik umah coz, ada kad nak bagi kat neighbors sbelah... we went  straight back sg merab... reached abt 3pm... penat gile.. sampai umah terus mkn sbb my perut dah bekeroncong... baby inside tgh kelaparan.... ptg tuh nothing much to do, tolong siap2 kan hantaran sket2 lagi....

saturday plak, started with brekfes in the morning, which is nasi impit... terus siapkan for those men yg nak pegi amik daging kerbau kat labu... prepare for them... then MIL was ready to go to pasa borong but unfortunately nobody wanted to help her... pity her and i volunteered myself to go, at first die tak bagi sbb takut licin and barang2 berat... darl also refused to let me go but i successfully convinced darl that i need to go helping MIL with promised that i take care of myself.. so, there we go... bought ikan, vege, and few other lauk for makanan pengantin... reached back at 11 am.. at that time, i havent had my brekfes yet... sampai je terus mkn.... dah siap mkn, without mandi, terus prepare lauk for lunch.. the menu: kobis masak lemak, sambal ikan selar & ikan masin... after dah siap, terus prepare for serving.... letak kat bangsal in buffet set.... almost finished at 2pm... baru bole mandi... waiting for my car (SIL#2 pinjam gi jemput kengkawan) to fetch tepak  hantaran kat umah mat... at 2.30pm baru SIL#2 balik, terus amik kunci and drove back to shamelin.... at first the road was ok, but rite after bandar tasik selatan, the jam was really bad... it was merangkak till GOD knows where... i short cut in safari waterpark, masuk jln dlm... reached nearly 4pm...letih gile... sempat tempel lipstik sket so that tak de le nampak melepek sgt..hehhhehe.. sampai je, org tak ramai (my bro did open hse that day).. terus sambar mee kari and rendang... mkn kat dapur je, borak2 ngan mak kejap.. mata dah ngantuk gile but i have to tahan... b4 balik, i did my asar prayer.... amik tepak hantaran and my baju for that nite's kenduri nikah... rushed back abt 5 pm.... mak bagi sebtg lemang, specially made in Raub....:)

Yesterday was pretty much not in mood to log in blog... tak de le byk keja but still very unproductive. keep on surfing the net, reading other people's blog, playing game (once a while) and last skali baru nak tehegeh2 buat slide presentation for broadband.

nothing much happening in this 1-2 days... darl is still bz preparing all the stuff for the kenduri.. just called him and he said, they going to robohkan the bangsal and will do it again... goshhhh.... what a day.... apparently bangsal lama seems not to be very strong and ada one of the tiang yg dah jatuh... they were using buluh as the foundation, and it seems that the buluh are not properly tight.... agaknye la kot... tak ke kena buat keja 2-3 kali... *sigh*
anyway, the preparation seems to be quite ok. bangsal dah buat, tukang masak dah ready, barang2 pun dah beli, pelamin pasang on friday/saturday, org dah jemput (tunggu whether baper ramai dtg je) so, all in one it looks ok.

as for me, tak de pe menarik, i havent been to MIL's hse since last monday. i came to there bcoz nak kena pegi umah Makcik (darl's mak angkat) at bkt canggang.. we left at 9, sampai around 9.30... then borak2 sampai kul 11. at first ingat nak pegi as early as after maghrib, but MIL suh mkn roti canai that BIRAS#1 (re: k.dila) bagi that morning. MIL even tebar and cook kari ayam for the kuah. so we had our dinner actually b4 went to bkt canggang. penatnye mlm tuh, coz we reached home almost 12. terus tebongkang atas katil.

for this kenduri, i will be sponsoring bunga pahar and fruit kek for hantaran. kek will be picked up on friday and i will buy the bunga pahar also on friday kat warta. hopefully that kedai ada la stok for 90 pieces. we will be sleeping at MIL's hse on friday and saturday. ye la, org tgh kalut2 kat sana, takkan nak balik lak kan. at first i memang bit reluctant to sleep there coz, mesti ramai org but darl said he has to sleep there, nak jaga barang2 yg letak kat luar... emmm....
My bro (re: Mat) lak buat open hse this coming saturday and abah and mak will staying at their hse. tah ape2 la mamat tuh. i will be trying my very best to go, maybe i will be going alone, nak amik 3 tepak hantaran and my baju kurung for that nite of nikah from mak. sambil2 tu bole le gi open hse skali... but i cannot be that long la.. but they will understand.

i went thru a pack weekend... the whole of my weekend was spent in MIL's hse due to kenduri this coming weken... darl was bz buat bangsal, with help with other ikhwan.
some brief story regarding this ikhwan. my IL's famili is actually involve in tarikat. what is tarikat, i have no specific definition, but i know that Rasulullah is the lead of the original tarikat. Harun Din also is a tarikat leader. Tarikat has its own group, has its own leader (tok guru) and Rasulullah is the originalist (founder). IL's famili followed PakSu who was actually followed one Tok Guru from Rembau (died already). In tarikat, all of the followers are called ikhwan and we supposed to be bounded with each other. we took specfic zikir from PakSu which given from one kitab. I also has my own which i has to perform the zikir twice a day (after subuh and maghrib). every thursday we have the zikir after maghrib, we even have it after solat raya. darl never told me abt this b4 we got married, 1st time when i went to surau (beside IL's hse), i was quite shocked and surprise... takut pun ada but when time flies, i was ok and used to it...
what i was not agreed with, is the bonded between ikhwan. pak su always told that among ikhwan, we shud help each other, take care with each other, but what i see during our preparation for this kenduri, there nothing that other ikhwan help. we mainly did everything by ourselves. only yesterday, few ikhwan came, which i was so surprise seeing them.... like darl said last nite, otw back to puchong, they shud be able to do more with that number of ikhwan, but what they was able to build yesterday was a 1/2 build bangsal for potong2 daging ngan bawang... that's all... even darl said, he olone can do better than that....hehheh... nhow, still kena appreciate kan...
that is what i wonder abt this ikhwan. of coz there is no doubt abt tarikat coz it is Rasul's punye ibadah but i was wondering abt the bonded... actually kesian kat MIL and FIL, coz they hardly involve with other org kg, so unlike macam kenduri kat Raub, where abah will call all related frens and org kg and did mesyuarat for tetapkan keja, a mth b4 kenduri kawin, here all kena buat sendiri... apparently FIL tak suka gi kenduri org kg and that shows why nobody bother abt our kenduri... anyway, i do hope everything will go smooth and steady.... insyaallah....
SIL is now xcited with baju kawin yg dah siap but not as per expectation... she was quite frustrated, ngan baju yg pendek then so dull sbb baju tu putih and no manik2 or any beads at all... so, i suggested to jahit manik and she did that yesterday... looks better sbb die nikah mlm, so she need something that menyerlah sket.. kalau tak, org lain akan overshadow la..hehheh.... (like me)....:D

Friday blues.... lagi la malas nak buat keja since 2morrow is already weken. dlm kepala penuh imagination of zzzzZZZZzzzz.. terasa empuknye tilam.....
btw, today i'm om 1/2 day leave. ptg nih ada chckup, so i'll be heading back to bkt jalil b4 me and darl going to SMC.  then after that, heading back to Sg Merab, nak distribute SIL kad to darl's frens sambil2 nak gi raya skali... maybe late evening or after maghrib heading kejap to k.ngah's hse to take my almond london yg sepatutnye mkn masa raya ari tuh. it's all k.ngah's fault or to be exact abg syam's. he forgot to bring back the kuih to Raub, he only remembered kuih tat je. so, that's it, tak de almond london this year terhidang atas meja....:p
sambil2 tu nak memenuhkan balik meja for my guests la plak. last few days, darl's fren came over kul 9.30. memang malang sungguh, ngan tak de kuih raya and that day i pun tak sihat and tak masak... sian diorang dtg, kena mkn kuih raya yg very limited and keropok yg sempat digoreng cicah sambal... malunyeeeeee......... :P. pe nak buek, lain kali kena bagitau awal2 sket... so, last 2 days darl went to temerloh, kim die tapau kuih lidah kucing from umah Makcik. apparently makcik kuih lidah kucing is very nice, without sugar... sedappp..... later next week, dah kim ngan mak for few other kuih as well, so tak de le malu sgt kalau org dtg beraya... and i also plan to buy some mehun, just to spare kat umah, mana la tau ada org dtg, so bole le goreng mihun... maybe mee siput as well.... darl suka sgt  mkn that mee.....

tak sabo nak balik sat lagi... bestnye ari nih 1/2 day.... aaa.. thats remind me to apply another leave for next week b4 and  after kenduri... yeh... done with the cuti.... my leave was so, so ciput. as of middle dec, my leave balance is only 2 1/2 days... memang secukup2 rasa je.. nanti krismes nak amik lagi since MIL dah ajak gi Ipoh, ada kenduri kawin.. ingat nak gi jln2 kat penang skali... tapi tgk la dulu.. kalau maleh, tak yah la kot....

okla, dah nak prepare for balik awal.... c ya next week...